How to make him come back

 That’s a pretty tough question, still, it’s a fair one. Why do I say that? It’s because when you want to regain him you must determine him to want you back. Because you know how it is… you can’t force someone to love you.

Breaking up gives you a tough time and it seems you’re the only one who wants to make up but still, there are methods to make him want the same thing. If you start working towards this goal right away, no matter what happened in the past, you can have a future with your ex.

What to do?

First, you have to understand the situation, accept the fact that you broke up with him (even if you have different feelings). He has to see that you understood the fact that you should break up and you agree with that. He must see that you’re ok… more than ok. Tell him you thought about it a lot and reached the conclusion that this is the best way and this is the right decision for both of you.

Make him miss you

This is the most difficult part because it’s very hard to not react to impulses when he’s always in your mind. But that’s very important. Make yourself unavailable. Don’t call him and if he calls be nice but keep the conversation as short and simple as possible. Tell him you’re busy right then and he should call you back later. Don’t act desperate. The key is to make him come to you. And I know this from my experience, when you don’t give him attention at all even the most arrogant and indifferent man comes back to you.

What you shouldn’t do

First of all don’t hassle him with phone calls, letters, e-mails or visits. Don’t try to call him 20 times per day even if he doesn’t answer. There’s one way to call this way of behaving: harassment. Once you do that he’ll avoid you and run away from you before you know it. And don’t act desperate. Just think about it, everybody would be annoyed with such a behavior.

How you should be

Men feel attracted to women that can take care of themselves and don’t need a man around to feel fulfilled. Be an independent woman. Be a woman that knows what she wants. With this image, your chances to get him back will raise consistently.

The Magic Of Making Up.